They say, “Everything is uncomfortable for the first time: school, smoking, or sex.” But this need not be true. If you are having sex for the first time or even the hundredth, you would always want it exciting and satisfying. However, if you are having sex for the first time, you would like it to be the most memorable event of your life, something that you would cherish throughout. Many studies reveal that sex, for the first time, is important both for physical and mental well-being. People who are physically and emotionally satisfied when losing their virginity has a comparatively full filling sex life than those who experience anxiety. So it is compulsory for both the partners to make each other comfortable and at ease. In this article, we will discuss some first-time sex tips that can help you have a wonderful first-time experience.
- Be ready, both physically and mentally
Before you and your partner indulge in having sex, make sure that you both have reached the legal age to have sex. Also, it is important to make sure that you both are ready for it or not. If you are in love and the thought of having sex excites you both, then go for it.
- Don’t rush it
They say all good things take time. And so does sex. Since you are a first-timer, you must be patient. Explore your partner. Know what he/she likes and prefers. Also, make sure that you are going slowly. Since you will be trying it out for the first time, it can be physically hurtful too. So it is always advisable to be slow.
- Erogenous zones for men
Before you have sex, know both the male and the female body well. To make the experience worthwhile, you must know the pleasure spots. The erogenous zones for men are the skin, perineum, nipples, scrotum, neck, and ears. Gently suck your man’s nipples or whisper what you would like to do in his ears, and see him go crazy!
- Erogenous zones for women
A woman’s most erogenous areas are the vaginal opening, cervix, G-spot, clitoris and nipples. This also differs from woman to woman.
- Importance of foreplay
A woman needs to have foreplay because it gets a woman a long time to get aroused which is required for orgasm. So make sure that she is sufficiently wet before you enter her. Also, since the first time is physically hurtful, it is of utmost importance that she is thoroughly wet to make the penetration smoother. You can also try lubrication for easier penetration.
- Know your limits
You must know your partner’s comfort zone. Talk to your partner about it. Invent some safe words if required so that the experience goes well.
Hope these tips are useful to you to make your first night unforgettable.
